A special visit

Lyla and “Auntie” Suz

Thought this was a cute profile shot and you can kinda see her hair in the back!

Over the weekend my friend Susan came to visit and to meet Lyla.  She is like a sister to me, so Susan is considered an “auntie” to Lyla as I am considered an “auntie” to her 2 girls too.  She is super talented in all things creative, especially photography and computer stuff (she’s a graphic designer).  So she did a special photo shoot of Lyla.  We had lots of fun, especially since she had to stay an extra night due to an ice storm!

Recently God has helped me to realize all the different ways in which He chooses to comfort us, including friends and family, precious people in our lives, who are so willing to just listen and love.  
These are some very fitting verses that I ran across:  
2 Corinthians 1:3-5  “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.  For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows.”  
PS–I guess there really isn’t a problem with making comments on this blog–so comment away!   
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Lulu likes to take naps on Lyla’s boppy 🙂

Here’s a few more pics. Also, I think that there is a problem with leaving comments on this blog. If you want to send a message feel free to email me at jennyjane78@hotmail.com or email Joel at joelalameida@hotmail.com.  Have a happy day!
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5 weeks…

Happy 5 week Birthday sweet baby girl!

Grandma & Grandpa Alameida


Uncle Foz

“Auntie” Bryanna (Lyla’s cute outfit is from her)

Today is Lyla’s 5 week birthday!  She continues to do what babies do best–eat, sleep, poop, be cute. 🙂  During the hour and half she was awake this morning for her early morning feeding, I changed her diaper 4 times–we should buy stock in Pampers I think. 

Anyway, I thought we could celebrate the day by posting some cute Christmas pics and one I just took of her half awake in her crib.  Thank you for your continued prayers for Lyla and us–we can feel them every day.
Also, I need to add that I cannot take credit for how cool this blog looks–my incredibly talented and dear friend Susan helped me greatly! 
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Happy New Year


                                    A new Year’s kiss for Lyla
     I’m obsessed with taking feet shots– aren’t those booties the cutest!

Just wanted to wish you a Happy 2009!  As I reflect on 2008 there are so many things to be thankful for, especially this little bundle who’s snoring away in my left arm as I type with my right. 🙂  Jesus has given us love, comfort, peace, courage and joy in this past year and we hope that you have experienced these things through Jesus in your life too.  

Also, I wanted to share the story of Joel & Jenny’s extremely romantic New Year’s date.  Joel’s parents kindly offered to take care of Lyla so that we could go out on New Year’s.  They had given us an Applebee’s gift card so we decided to go out to eat and then maybe rent a video.  Well, we got to Applebee’s and the wait was 50 minutes so we said forget it, and instead decided to go all out (being that it was New Year’s) and had a fabulous meal at McDonald’s.  Then (brace yourself) we went to Wal-Mart and bought toilet paper, diapers, and Rolaids.  After that we decided it was too late to get a video so we went home.  What a night!  We had to laugh a bit as we realized how life changes… 
Enjoy the pics of little L on New Year’s. 🙂
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Lyla’s Story

Lyla Jane Alameida was born on November 28th, 2008 at 3:16 pm.  She weighed 5 lbs 0 oz and was 18 inches long, and has lots of black hair! Lyla was born with a chromosomal disorder called Trisomy 18 (or Edward’s Syndrome) which occurs in about 1 in 5000 newborns.  According to geneticists, Trisomy 18 occurs absolutely randomly–there is nothing that causes the chromosomal abnormality to occur and there is no way to prevent it from occurring. But we know that God has a purpose in all things, He makes no mistakes, and He always intended for us to have our little Lyla just as she is.  Lyla has an extra #18 chromosome in every cell of her body.  This can cause many physical problems for her as well as developmental disabilities.  Lyla spent the first 12 days of her life in the neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) at the hospital because she was having some breathing difficulties and she did not have enough platelets in her blood.  But Lyla is a little fighter, and is now at home doing incredibly well.  She did not have to come home on oxygen and her platelet count has come back up–her little body has kicked it into gear.  She does need to have a special formula that is already broken down for her because she has a dairy allergy that was causing some internal bleeding.  One of Lyla’s kidneys does not work, but her other kidney has taken over and is compensating just fine.  Research says that less than 10% of babies with Trisomy 18 survive to their first birthday, but our little Lyla is breaking some of the rules already–for example, her heart is in great shape, she has not had any seizure activity so far, and she does not need a feeding tube because she is bottle feeding so well.  And we know that SO many people are praying for her, that we have a hunch she’ll keep breaking the rules and surprise all the doctors. 🙂  Lyla is our beautiful little miracle, and she is teaching us so much about love, about trusting Jesus, about the power of prayer, about God’s sovereignty, and about what a ripple effect one amazing little life can have.  It is profound and beautiful.  We thank God for every day, every moment with Lyla Jane.
These verses make me think of her.
Psalm 139:13-16  “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.  I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.  My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place.  When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body.  All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.” 
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